Thursday, July 19, 2007

Do you resent being adopted?

I never resented being adopted. I have great loving parents. I do resent my heritage and medical history wasn’t there for me growing up. I do wish I had a picture of my birth father. I have always felt that my parents who raised me will always be my parents. I also believe that if my son’s ever search for me that I won’t try to replace their parents who raised them. I would like to be their friend. I wish I had the guts to call my birth father and talk to him more. Ok by now your probable wonder why I haven’t mention my birth mom much. I spoke to her for many months. At the time on meeting her she back out. Ok maybe she was scared. I’m not really sure. Haven’t spoken since. I also didn’t like how she down graded my parents. My parents have been there for me threw thick and thin. She did many lies to my birth father when I was born. I think that’s why I’m nervous about calling him. I also don’t want to interfere in his life now. Please feel free to leave your opinions and comments. Like to know how other feel about being adopted.